Straight girls guide dating women
Recently, I've been getting a lot of private Facebook messages from baby lesbians who are freshly out of the closet and asking me all kinds of questions:"How do I date girls? I will never forget how terrified I was when I first realized I wanted to exclusively swim in the girl pond. I exerted zero effort into attracting boy creatures, but I learned quickly that I didn't really need to. It can feel wildly intimidating to be a little, vulnerable kitten tossed into a teeming cesspool of seasoned dykes.We aren't like gay men who shamelessly advertise incessant fabulous gay parties all over the Internet.(Please, dear god, make me a gay man in my next life).
We put great stock in the forbidden, or hard to get.
If you're comfortable, and the chemistry is there, and you're feeling the heat -- go for it, sister. One of the best parts about your new gay life is now that you're finally out of that repressive closet and are embracing your sexual identity, a whole new world inside of you will come to life.
The average woman isn't going to ghost you because you slept with her on the first date. What's she going to do, tell her friends how "easy" you are?
Maybe it was my aloofness that drew in the dudes (straight girls take note), but damn, dudes were easy like ~Sunday morning~.
All you have to do is bat a lash, act entirely disinterested, cold and bitchy, and boys will fall at your feet.